Married Vs Single women

by Kishore on September 13, 2009

The choice to be single or married is an important issue. The choice what you make today can change your life forever. Our mantra should be to make our life successful. If you are married to your soul mate, you can make your life wonderful.

Are all women happy as married? Or are all women happy as single?  

By marriage, a woman can change her home, name families and possibly her friends moreover married woman can walk with her head held high and confident because she has an unexpressed truth of being protected. The other side of the marriage is, married women are jealous of their unmarried friends.

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Why the married women are jealous of their unmarried women friends?

Marriage is a vicious circle and it is all about sacrifice, compromise and commitment. Married women are thinking that single women are “free” and can make independent choice. Once you are married you simply loose the right to make independent decisions and moreover for every petty thing we have to approach our men for the permission since some men prefer to be bossed around. What is it like to live with a controlling spouse?

Being single, can do anything to our decision like travelling, trying a new career etc… but being married, we have to consider how our decision will affect your spouse. Single women can make own financial decisions without consulting anybody and never have to account to someone else for every penny you spend.

Marriage has a way of making people grow up and think about their future as well as tend to save for the retirement while single prefers to spend for clothes, fitness, makeup, personal accessories etc.. and never ever bothered of the savings or their future.

Marriage has the advantage of togetherness and tend to work things of together while single women have no one to bounce things off.  When you are married you have someone in life you love, depend etc.. Single women have a feeling that they have been left alone in the society and they are always having a hidden fear of insecurity.

This could be my  perspective and every story has two sides. Whatever be our marital status, social transformations are affecting women on both categories.

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  • 19th century

    Excuse me, but what century do you live in? A married woman can just as well make her own (financial) decisions as any unmarried woman. Financial dependency is not linked with being married anymore nowadays in most cultures. Many women provide their share of income to the marriage (yes – work and children is possible and shows the extraordinary strength that women have being able to shoulder both). Of course if sharing your life with a spouse and children, you have to consider your family, but the view of the husband as the sole provider of the family and the woman being the poor shy housewife – that is history.Single women are not living their lifes inconsiderate of people around them. Single women have families too that might be dependend of them and their income at some point – sick parents, siblings in need etc.I would suggest you to properly think through your blog entries before making such out-dated and black-and-white comments.

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  • Peter Kalonda

    There is no comparison between married woman and single one, not comparison at all. it is just you are trying to compare white and black even they’re both color.
    Single is a person who never get married, never has a child and never has sex.
    Married woman is a person who get married, who may have a child and who is allow to have sex.
    So please do not confuse people with your wrong subject, there no comparison between prostitution and mariage.

  • Carpenter

    I’m not exactly sure what point the aritcle is trying to make. The reality is, there are still a lot of myths out there about married and single people. The ideas that singles don’t plan for their future, don’t enjoy sex, are less mature than married people is out right ridiculous. Maturity, a happy sex life, taking on the challenges of child rearing are not concepts restricted one’s marital status. Marriage is cool for some, but it’s certainly not for everybody. It’s damn near 2011 people, why do we still have the antiquated, 1950′s view points about love and relationships.